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You cannot compare and be grateful at the same time.
I love how Forrest Frank sings, “Let’s put Christ back in CHRISTmas” — go listen to it!
Hi SF fam,
As this year comes to a close, there’s a message pressing deeply on my heart.
As we step into this precious time of the year — a season that is all about Jesus — let’s be mindful of one thing:
Comparison.
Comparing our bodies to others.
Comparing our children.
Comparing our holidays.
Comparing our circumstances.
It’s so easy to fall into, especially with social media only one tap away.
I speak often about the power of gratitude, and here’s something I’ve learned over and over again:
You cannot compare and be grateful at the same time.
They simply cannot co-exist.
So my gentle encouragement as we enter this season of celebration?
Let’s disconnect from social media a little.
Let’s slow down.
Let’s pick up our journals.
Let’s intentionally write down the things we are deeply grateful for.
“Thank You, Lord, for my body — that it is an instrument.
Thank You for my family.
Thank You that You sent Your Son.
Thank You, Jesus, that You show us how to live a life that honours You.”

As we reflect, here are some questions for your heart:
What are you truly grateful for?
Where has comparison been stealing joy?
How can you unhurry this festive season and intentionally slow down?
How can you shift your focus more onto Him… and less onto you?
A blessing for you this festive season…
May you enjoy this special time with your loved ones.
I love how Forrest Frank sings, “Let’s put Christ back in CHRISTmas” — go listen to it!
May your heart be rooted in gratitude.
May you feel the Lord’s nearness — His Word says He is close to the brokenhearted.
May you laugh, slow down, breathe deeply… and have FUN!

Last week to order before I unplug on Monday.
I’ll be unplugging on Monday for rest and family time.
Thank you for being part of this beautiful community. You mean more to me than you know.
Love,
Minette